“Ugly” Wasn’t Her True Identity
“I’m sorry if my daughter hides her face from the camera. She often gets called ‘ugly,’” Christyn’s mother, Arlyn, shared.
On November 5th, 2018, empty chairs filled the ground-floor lobby at Tebow CURE Hospital, waiting for our usual mix of orthopedic clinic patients along with cleft lip and palate patients attending our cleft clinic. We had bubbles ready to be blown, and the toys were set out. Our storytellers made sure that our batteries were charged and our cameras were ready to capture the start of cleft camp. Soon, we witnessed an overflow of patients and their families, caregivers, and siblings who tagged along to support the healing journey of their loved ones. That morning, we met with a total of 36 cleft lip and palate clinic patients
One of the patients waiting was Christyn.
We make a point to spend time getting to know our patients and their families, but there are often language barriers that get in the way. We try to run by the motto: “Smile when you don’t know what to say.”
A smile is indeed a universal language; our staff speaks it, and it comes right back to us from our patients and their families.
But what if someone refused to smile because “ugly” has become her identity?
Arlyn told us more about her daughter Christyn: “My daughter is beautiful. She’s a good kid and loves to dance. Her favorite dance move is a combination of a twirl where she eventually lands on a split! She could hardly wait to go to school, and she asks us to buy a pen and pencil so she can draw––it’s her favorite thing to do! My hope for Christyn is to be able to go to school and not get bullied by anybody.”
Thanks to our partners at Free to Smile, 28 screened patients had surgery. The Free to Smile Foundation is a non-profit organization dedicated to supporting and sustaining comprehensive, high-quality surgical and dental services for poor and underprivileged children and adolescents. The team from the United States––Scott, Jason, Stavan, Dave, and Riley––worked together to perform cleft lip and palate surgeries, transforming deformities into brand new smiles.
Christyn was one of the patients whose smile was transformed through surgery.
Thanks to the organization and hard work put in by our social worker, Joy, the cleft camp produced beautiful results. Christyn’s newly transformed smile is a testament to its success. Her smile not only reflects her true beauty but will become a language of love and kindness, especially to those who once called her “ugly.”